As many of you know, living in Phoenix has been a challenging transition for us. It is both weird and wonderful and mostly just really different than anything we've ever known. There is obviously a serious lack of water and green, but also the car focused, consumer culture is also a bit foreign to us. It does remind you of how difficult it is to define 'America' because each region, state, city, town can be so different. Here are a few interesting experiences/things that make up Phoenix.
We listen to the radio frequently, everything from NPR to the local R&B station. Within one week we heard two interesting radio highlights. First, on the R&B station, a club in Scottsdale (a wealthy area in the Valley, which I recently heard described as our 'Los Angeles' because it's image driven) was advertising for people to come to the club because they were offering paternity tests courtesy of a local lab. Yep, that's right. Come, boogie on the dance floor, and find out who's your baby daddy.
The second story was on local NPR which talked about how a local church was beginning to offer drive-thru prayer/confession. In some ways this seems forward thinking for the church to realize how fast paced America can be, why not 'prayer on the go'? On the other hand, it shows how disconnected and fast paced America can be--can we not even take a spiritual moment? Along the lines of spirituality, I actually saw a car with a big sign painted in its back window with car paint. No it didn't say 'Just Married' or 'Congrats Graduate,' it said 'RIP John Doe 1975-2009.' Okay, it didn't say that specifically, but you get the idea. Someone was mourning and letting it be known to the world from his rear window. Both of these things don't surprise me here in Phoenix and I think it speaks volumes.
The last experience I wanted to mention was the fact that Matt and I had a black widow spider living exactly one foot from our front door. In case you don't know much about a black widow, it is the most venemous spider in North America. It has a red spot on its stomach which helps you identify it. They love the desert. We tried to kill it by dumping hot water on it, and although we don't see it anymore, I am not sure we were successful. Sometimes I feel like we're living here blind since I know nothing about black widow spiders, turantulas (which we saw on a hike), scorpions, rattle snakes and other scary creatures.
Ok, ok, all that negativity aside, Phoenix does have pluses. It is in the 70s and sunny everyday in the winter--finally relief. However, it does make you feel like you're in a time warp since there are essentially no seasons all year long, unless you consider 'hot' and 'really, really hot' seasons. The hiking is great. And the mexican food too. The best part is being closer to family and friends and living in a sunny place that people want to visit. I think Phoenix would be a great place to vacation because it's guaranteed sun and warmth.
And now for something cute...
Here's Seattle Syd
Here's Phoenix Syd